How To Create The Reality You Desire By Letting Go Of Judgement

Have you ever noticed how some people effortlessly manifest their desires, while others remain caught in recurring patterns despite their best efforts?

What if I told you that reality is as malleable as a dream—and the key to shaping it lies not in what you do, but in how you perceive and judge the world around you?

1. The Seventh Level of Energy: Where Creation Begins

In the realm of energy leadership, The Seven Levels of Energy framework maps our states of consciousness and how they shape every experience we have:

• Lower levels (1-2) trap us in victimhood and conflict—where circumstances control us.
• Mid-levels (3-5) engage rational thinking, acceptance, and proactive problem-solving—where we work within perceived limitations.
• Higher levels (6-7) unlock visionary potential and limitless creation—where we transcend limitations entirely.

The Seventh Level is where reality becomes fluid, where obstacles dissolve into opportunities, and where pure creation occurs without resistance.

This is where Einstein developed relativity. Where Marie Curie persisted despite impossibilities. Where visionaries throughout history have operated—seeing beyond the apparent limitations that stopped others.

What if your perception of challenges is what keeps them solid in your reality? What might shift if you suspended judgment, even for a moment?

2. The Quantum Nature of Your Reality

In quantum mechanics, the famous Double-Slit Experiment shows that particles exist in multiple states (wave-like superposition) until they are observed, at which point they “collapse” into a definite form.

Schrödinger’s cat, a thought experiment, was designed to illustrate this bizarre reality:

• Before you observe it, the cat exists in a superposition of being both alive and dead.
• Only when you observe it does reality “collapse” into a single outcome.

This isn't just abstract science—it's the blueprint for how your consciousness shapes your experience:

• When you focus on lack, you collapse reality into experiences of "not enough."
• When you obsess over problems, more problems appear in your field of vision.
• When you look for evidence of your limitations, you find it everywhere.

But the reverse is equally true:

• Focus on abundance, and opportunities materialize.
• Look for solutions, and pathways emerge.
• Believe in possibility, and doors begin to open.

If quantum reality is inherently fluid until observed, what happens when you suspend judgment about what's "possible" in your life?

3. Your Reality: A Waking Dream

Consider this question: How do you know with absolute certainty that you're awake right now?

In dreams:

• Your mind creates entire worlds instantaneously.
• You interact with people who seem completely real.
• You accept the most extraordinary circumstances as normal.

In what we call "reality":

• The same consciousness is at work, just operating under different rules.
• The stability you experience comes from consistent judgment and expectation.
• Your sense of limitations comes from agreements you've made about what's "real" and what's "right."

The difference? In dreams, you create without judgment. In waking life, judgment limits what you allow yourself to create.

If your reality is a more stable version of a dream, which rules have you unconsciously accepted that might be more flexible than you realize?

4. How Judgment Locks Your Reality in Place

Here's where possibility meets practicality:

Every time you make a judgment—"I'm not good at public speaking," "Money is hard to come by," "That person will never change"—you collapse infinite possibilities into a single, fixed reality.

This happens on three crucial levels:

1. Self-Identity: When you decide "this is who I am," you reject all other versions of yourself that might exist.
2. External Circumstances: When you label situations as "impossible" or "difficult," you solidify those qualities in your experience.
3. Relationships: When you judge others as "always" or "never" being a certain way, you lock them into that role in your reality.

My coaching clients experience breakthrough moments when they realize:

• Their "fixed" traits are simply patterns they've reinforced through judgment.
• Their "impossible" goals are only impossible because they've judged them to be so.
• Their challenging relationships persist because judgment keeps them frozen in place.

Which judgment, if released today, would create the most immediate shift in your experience?

5. Becoming the Conscious Creator of Your Experience

At the Seventh Level of Energy, you step fully into your role as creator:

• You recognize reality as a responsive field rather than a fixed structure.
• You suspend labels of "good" and "bad" to see pure potential in every situation.
• You align your internal state with your desired outcome, knowing your outer world reflects your inner landscape.

This isn't mystical thinking—it's quantum understanding applied to daily life.

When Elon Musk said, "When something is important enough, you do it even if the odds are not in your favor," he was operating from this level—refusing to collapse possibility through judgment.

When Mother Teresa built her mission despite overwhelming obstacles, she suspended judgment about what was "realistic."

When you release judgment, you reclaim the power to reshape your experience from the inside out.

What would become possible in your life if you stopped judging what's "realistic" and started creating from pure possibility?

6. The Transformation: From Reaction to Creation

My coaching methodology guides clients through this precise transition:

• From Fixed Identity to Fluid Potential
• From Limiting Beliefs to Expansive Possibility
• From Reacting to Circumstances to Creating Circumstances

Through our work together, you'll learn to:

• Identify the specific judgments holding your current reality in place
• Release those judgments through practical, daily practices
• Access higher energy states where creation happens naturally
• Establish new patterns that support your desired reality
• Maintain this expanded state even amid challenges

The difference between where you are and where you want to be isn't about working harder—it's about perceiving differently.

Your Invitation to Possibility

If you've read this far, something in you recognizes the truth of what I'm sharing. Perhaps you've glimpsed moments of this expanded state—times when possibilities seemed endless and creation felt effortless.

That wasn't coincidence. It was you, momentarily free from judgment, accessing your natural state as a creator.

I invite you to explore what's possible beyond the boundaries of judgment.

Through my coaching program at Reflections Collective, we'll work together to systematically release the judgments keeping you stuck and access the expanded state where your desired reality already exists.

Begin now: For the next seven days, practice catching yourself in moments of judgment. Simply notice, without judging the judgment itself. See what shifts in your experience when you suspend definitive conclusions about yourself, others, and what's possible.

Ready to go deeper? Let's connect for a complimentary discovery session to explore how coaching can help you access the Seventh Level of Energy and create the reality you truly desire. [Book here]